Life Skills

A recent quote I heard from a coworker: “I can just type really fast and I never make mistakes. I just love it – I can get work done so much faster.”  - You go girl. If you got it, flaunt it.


Naturally, I started to think about what I’m really good at - aka my favorite thing to think about. Here is the list:

• Making lists (this will be a common theme in all blog posts...I just love listing)
• Chewbaca impressions

 In addition to this lengthy and indepth list, I have one more skill that is my greatest: human watching.


THERE IS NO SKILL BETTER THAN THIS.


This is why my skill is superior to all other skills:

• It provides hours of entertainment and can be done anytime, anywhere. That’s what she said.
• Whilst human watching, you can analyze the situation, come up with a solution, and solve all of your subjects’ problems. Thus, you are a trained counselor/psychologist. Resume bonus.
• It’s not judging if no one knows you are doing it.
• I will always consider myself to be qualified to be in the FBI as a spy. There is no room for contradiction on this, so don’t try.

I watch humans everywhere. It is my primary motivation, besides booze, for attending events such as professional sporting events, parties, and the DMV (it is my only motivation for attending that last one). I try to be at the airport more than two hours before my flight so I have enough time to delve into the lives of others. Yesterday, I went to Greenlake alone to sit on a grassy knoll and watch a softball game, from which I knew no players. It was one of the better evenings I've had.

To put it mildly, human watching is a favorite past time and a skill I highly value. 

Skills you must first master before becoming an elite human watcher:

1.       Be able to pinpoint someone’s location by hearing them, not seeing them.

2.       Once located, you may graduate to subtly glancing in their direction – thus the need to know EXACTLY where you will be directing your eyes at that perfect moment.

3.       Once you have established your first look and confirmed your subject's need for your counsel, you must mask your emotions. On the outside you are a cool cucumber just enjoying your Grande Passion Iced Tea with Lemonade, but on the inside you are an excited five year old who just found out there’s a slip-n-slide at the birthday party.

4.        This next skill really relies on your ability to think on your feet and get creative. You don’t know where that convo has been, where it’s going, or in what context it was initiated – so you make that ish up. Your story is better than theirs anyways…except for those rare gems where even in your wildest imagination you could not come up with something as awesome as the real story. (Example of this phenomenon to come in a later blog).

5.       This last skill is really the most important. You must never pop the personal bubble surrounding the moment your subjects are having. You must always remain aloof, a piece of scenery in their life scene. If you break that barrier – flee immediately – as if you just remembered you forgot your baby in the car or that you think you saw Channing Tatum across the street beckoning to you. You cannot recover from a burst bubble incident.

Practice makes perfect people, so get out there.

Thought of the day:

• The absolute worst feeling in the world is that moment you realize you forgot your wallet on Taco Salad Day.
• The next worst feeling in the world is that moment you realize you also forgot to bring the lunch you packed last night.

Bing Searches of the day:

• Who is Jimmy Fallon married to?
• Can you flavor crack? Mom: This search stemmed from a conversation about pixy sticks and their likeness to crack...I do not/would not like to taste flavored or unflavored crack at any time.
• How do you spell leway? (It’s leeway for you inquisitive minds out there)

IM conversation of the day:

Cow: Just walked around and other people have aquarium things in their offices
Me: GASP. Yes. Please please please.
Cow: Or a goldfish?! But then I have to change the tank. Ew
Me: Worth it. Get a frog. Or a tiny baby turtle....Fuck it, just get a hampster.

An introduction...or update depending on your current knowledge of my life.

The time has come, once again, for my little fingers to slave over a blog, to wrack my brain for witty and charismatic things to say on a regular basis, to allow you into the world that is mine*.

Anyone reading this most likely knows all of the below about me, but if for some reason you DON’T know these things (FAIL), here are a few quick facts about my current life:

Employment:

I work for a little tech company in Redmond, Washington – the name of which is not important. What IS important is my job title: Technical Account Manager. I know – so descriptive. No explanation needed, right?  Here is a summary of what I do on a daily basis: 

1. Email lots of important people
2. Create beautiful works of art in Excel called project work back schedules and campaign performance reports
3. Yell at other people for not following my work back schedules
4. Get yelled at by other people for not providing them the proper number of SLA days to complete the work in my work back schedules
5. Copy and paste this line repeatedly into emails: "Let me know if I can help you with anything further!"
6. Internally yell at people who further ask for my help
7. IM my best friend who also works at said tech company to discuss extremely important business matters and for quick sanity checks/therapy sessions
8. Test, re-test, and then test ads again before setting them live
9. Remove ads an hour after pushing them live because the client has decided to go in another direction
10. Attempt to explain why we cannot redesign a new ad and get it live in the same day
11. Try to hold onto my sanity. 

 Typical IM conversation with my best friend who I will refer to as Cow (childhood nickname; in no way representative of Cow’s general appearance):

Cow: “I just pitched an idea to Taco Bell for their Taco Locos. I suggested we do an animation where a taco comes flying in from the left side of the BDE and collides in the center with Doritos to make one wonderful taco loco.”

Me: “I’m sorry but I would just NEVER order something other than a crunch wrap supreme. They can stop making new products right now because it’s not going to ever be better than a CWS. Their drive through menu should just be one giant picture of a crunch wrap supreme with “you’re welcome” written underneath it.”

Cow: “I’m going to quote you on that on the next client call.”

Latest Bing searches while at work:

• What does "SLA" stand for
• What is Monica Lewinsky doing now
• Is cottage cheese curdled milk
• Can you die from eating curdled milk
• Shirtless men in grocery stores (unsuccessful - but see below for reference)

Living situation:

Up until one week ago, I spent the last 2.5 years living with Cow and her boyfriend/fiancé/now husband on the East Side , otherwise known as suburbia. I finally decided to leave the nest and have made the move to Greenlake in an attempt to experience some city life.

First impressions:

1.  There are  young, attractive men everywhere. EVERYWHERE. Back in the “burbs”, grocery stores are filled with middle aged men carrying toddlers and buying bottles of Pino for their wives. In Seattle, grocery stores are filled with young, 20-somethings buying organic yogurt and balancing it out with a 24 pack of Coors Light. (Insert picture of several shirtless men milling about grocery aisles here)
2.  I lied when I told everyone I would ride the bus to work every day in an attempt to not pay the 520 bridge toll and save on gas money. My intentions were pure, my willingness to wake up 45 minutes earlier was not. 
3. I live within walking distance of the Woodland Park Zoo and a Mexican restaurant with $4 happy hour margaritas. Both of these places will be frequented on the regular…sometimes within the same hour. My goal is to befriend a Walrus and teach him to play the recorder by the end of summer: 

   4. On a nightly basis in my old room I would fall asleep to the sound of 1,000 frogs croaking in the pond across the street. I now fall asleep to the sound of metro buses and loud pedestrians outside my room. Both are equally loud and equally as obnoxious.

Stay tuned for more stories about work, Australian stalkers, this place called Time Out, Rape Park, Bing searches, thoughts on life, and city life adventures.

*Some stories, “quotes”, facts, and in general, anything I write, may be embellished/altered/completely made up in an attempt to make my life seem awesome and hilarious. You’re welcome.